All About Wedding Veils

Think of how many hours, days and even years a bride can spend ruminating over “The One.”  Whether she gives thought to her groom or her ideal wedding dress, the ability to be introspective is an imperative asset to any discerning bride-to-be.

Given all she has to mull over, what bride has time to contemplate something as seemingly trivial as a veil?

Hopefully this post can help the overwhelmed bride make these types of decisions more or less on the fly.  To start with, let us examine the different basic lengths of veil:

The Birdcage

No, we are not referring to the cinema blockbuster with Robin Williams and Gene Hackman.  We are instead speaking of the retro style of netting that just grazes your face above the chin.  While most veils tend to achieve a look that is rather traditional and demure, “the birdcage” begets a more mysterious appeal reminiscent of Hollywood film noir. 

Elbow Length

This length is often the most practical accompaniment to a gown that tends to enhance rather than overwhelm.  For this reason it is arguably the most popular with brides-to-be.  It serves as a happy medium between the more trendy and voguish look of the birdcage and the more traditional appearance of a grand cathedral veil. 

Fingertip Length

Rather self-explanatory, no?  The fingertip length veil is also a nod to the more smart and practical wedding look. 

Chapel and Cathedral Length…and BEYOOOOND!

The chapel and cathedral style veils skim the edge of the bridal train and beyond.  While many veils of this length make a grandiose statement, some achieve a more airy, romantic look with little to no embellishment.  For those who prefer extravangance, go for a multi-tiered look, or add lace and beading.  For the more modest bride, opt for a soft single layer veil with a raw or rolled edge. 

A Note on Embellishment and Detail

A few words of wisdom from the Wedding Sage:  The bride is the focal point; she should always be noticed over what she is wearing.  This is a widely recognized truth among wedding planners, bridal consultants, and fashionistas alike.

Well, guess what, ladies?  The gown comes as a close second.  Just as the dress should never detract from a pretty face, a veil should never swamp a gorgeous silhouette.  This is precisely why a bride should make a well-informed decision on the details of her veil after she purchases her dress.  One may find themselves muttering, ”Well, duh,” but only because it is an inherent truth.  

There are countless options for detail on the veil.  Have fun with the veil selection.  After all, the hardest part is now behind you.  You could choose beading and lace.  Select a ribbon edge, a rolled edge, or no edge at all if it strikes your fancy.  Simply put, couple a more simple veil with a more elaborate dress, and vice-versa. 

And lastly, picture the culmination on your wedding.  Envision a breathtakingly beautiful bride…  She is resplendent in a fitted gown of vintage lace…Do you see her?   Now picture a giant mantilla-style veil.  Picture that ivory monster of ruffles and tiers, swallowing that delicate flower whole.  Did I ruin your fantasy?  

My point exactly.  Contrary to popular belief, the bridal veil is not a lost or irrelevant tradition. But seriously, folks, don’t channel Mother Teresa.

Other Resources:

WeddingVeil.com – Affordable Wedding Veils
Wedding Veil on Wikipedia.org